First Impressions

Which matters more, your first impression or your analysis after prolonged exposure?  If we were talking about people, I’d say the second one. You can’t sum up a person based on a first impression. People have bad days or you can catch them at the wrong moment. But what about Read more…

Limbo

We have reached that point in a pregnancy when you are in a perpetual state of limbo.  Our official due date was yesterday.  For about the last two weeks we’ve been past the point where if labor started, it would have been fine. The baby could come at anytime so Read more…

Paradox of Choice

I recent comic at Calamities of Nature and a blog post by the Bored Sword got me thinking about choice.  First some context: From  the Bored Sword which was a post talking about book bannings for kids “You see, I’m a fairly firm believer in letting people, kids included, read what they Read more…

Abstract to Reality

When the whole “facts of life” were first explained to me, they made perfect sense. Sperm and egg combine. Cue cell replication. 9 months later, out comes a fully formed baby. They have computer simulations that show the whole thing. Makes perfect sense. But, the other day I was watching Read more…

Beautiful Day

It’s very pleasant outside today, in the mid 70’s and partly cloudy.  I think I’ll put aside getting much writing done today in favor of catching up on some pesky yard chores. The yard could use de-weeding and fertilizer. Need to take down the Christmas lights and clean the trash Read more…

Tipping

I worked in a restaurant for 6 years through high school and college. I wasn’t primarily a waiter, but I did do it on occasion. And I of course worked with many waiters/waitresses/servers (whatever you want to call them). Tips were their big source of income. But I personally find Read more…

Nose to the Grind Stone

Well, the holidays are over. Time to get back to work. I have a novel to finish writing and then edit into a coherent story.  But first I have to remember what the hell I was doing two weeks ago. I’ve always had a love/hate relationship with the first day Read more…

Sick

When you are self-employed and get sick, you don’t have to worry about taking sick days. You can take as many as you want. The problem is, you don’t get much done that way.